The Professional Side

I came to New Zealand in 2006 with my ex-husband and son, which meant I had to give up my career as a lawyer. To adapt, keep myself productive and find my passion, I studied, worked and started new businesses in different industries and now I have my coaching business and live happily with my boys.

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I believe that my mission and purpose in life is to "experience, search, learn, then teach" and that has been the theme of my entire life without me even realising. 

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I love to talk about my vulnerabilities as much as other people would love to talk about their strengths, because I believe that that might be more empowering to someone who feels lonely and stuck, encouraging them to ask for help.

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Some of my strengths, including the traumas I worked through: ​

• When I was 5 I went through severe trauma that my subconscious blocked but I lived with its emotional impact

• I was bullied at school at different stages both physically and emotionally from peers and teachers to the point where I was completely numb

• I went through a long and overwhelming divorce process

• I was not diagnosed but I believed I had some of the borderline personality disorder traits to some degree as a trauma response. I self-diagnosed and went through my own healing journey, which has been a great experience

• I had 9 surgeries, big and small

• I moved 13 houses and migrated to a new country during my marriage which are considered clinically depressing experiences

• I was betrayed and went through abusive relationships at different levels

• Car crashes 

• Chronic pain 

• I went through some spiritual experiences, which people give different names

• I had hard pregnancies, miscarriages and post-natal, and chronic depression away from any family support

• I was migrated to a country of different culture and language away of my family and friends

• Language barrier, as I came to NZ barely speaking any English

• I tried many therapies myself like psychology, coaching, counselling, Hakomi therapy, craniosacral, reiki, body and emotional code, negative energies release work, psychic mediums session, osteopathy and learn from them all.

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All of these experiences helped me to be a resourceful and persistent individual who believes anything is possible and there is no one approach that applies to everyone because we all are unique individuals. Our uniqueness is a result of complicated interactions at our physical, mental, spiritual, environmental and even energetic levels, therefore, to solve a problem at one level we have to look holistically at the full picture.